The chaser/runner cycle, like yin and yang, is deeply connected. When the energy dynamic changes, it can be hard to tell when you are ready to unite with your Twin Flame.
In my case, when I stopped chasing and let go completely, I felt a shift in our energy flow without needing to see or hear from him.
As a runner, I initially took our relationship for granted and wanted to run because I was married. This hurt him, and he shut me out. I chased him for a year until I found surrender. The following year, I focused on rediscovering myself and my soul.
In both chaser and runner roles, I learned that fear is the driving force, stemming from a fear of embracing unconditional love.
After experiencing both roles, I realized that there is no need for chasing or running. To know love, one must know fear.
Both the runner and chaser are afraid of fully embracing unconditional love within themselves.
As a runner, you will know you are ready for union when you feel a balance within yourself.
However, you cannot control your Twin partner’s experience. You will be ready for union when you feel harmony within your shared energy, where there is effortless flow of love without push or pull.
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